Comments on: My reputation was ruined by some cruel people, how do I get over this? http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/ Tips and Strategies for Branding your Business Online and Offline Fri, 21 May 2010 08:52:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: ? I ? jack sparrow ? http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-484 ? I ? jack sparrow ? Fri, 24 Oct 2008 20:05:34 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-484 What a c*nt! Don't worry. Its called K-A-R-M-A!!! She'll get the same back as wat she did to you 10 times worse! What a c*nt!
Don’t worry. Its called K-A-R-M-A!!!
She’ll get the same back as wat she did to you 10 times worse! ]]> By: Boriquen55 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-483 Boriquen55 Thu, 23 Oct 2008 11:42:01 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-483 How interesting that she moved. I`m not a lawyer nor I`m I too familiar wity laws, but shoudn`t a person that makes a statement about somene have to have documents that proves that what they are saying about that person is true? Perhaps you should see a lawyer because it may be you can sue that person for "Defamation of Character", if she can`t produce proof of what she said about you. That woman is very jealous of you, by the way. Stand up to these people in public and demand they prove what they`re saying, put them on the spot, don`t quit your job. Don`t back down, question their evil comments and show people that they are not true. If you don`t stand up to "bullies" they are always going to beat up on you. Stand up and say loudly, ENOUGH, you`re not going to beat up on me ever again. Discredit these people to everyone you come in contact with and expose them for what they are, nothing more then sick low gossips and trouble makers. Good luck> How interesting that she moved. I`m not a lawyer nor I`m I too familiar wity laws, but shoudn`t a person that makes a statement about somene have to have documents that proves that what they are saying about that person is true? Perhaps you should see a lawyer because it may be you can sue that person for “Defamation of Character”, if she can`t produce proof of what she said about you. That woman is very jealous of you, by the way. Stand up to these people in public and demand they prove what they`re saying, put them on the spot, don`t quit your job. Don`t back down, question their evil comments and show people that they are not true. If you don`t stand up to “bullies” they are always going to beat up on you. Stand up and say loudly, ENOUGH, you`re not going to beat up on me ever again. Discredit these people to everyone you come in contact with and expose them for what they are, nothing more then sick low gossips and trouble makers. Good luck> ]]> By: Cici http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-482 Cici Mon, 20 Oct 2008 11:29:03 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-482 wow this is like a movie I saw abt the devil neighbor. Yes, find a lawyer, you need to punish that woman because she actually cost you your job. It's serious and she can get penalized. wow this is like a movie I saw abt the devil neighbor. Yes, find a lawyer, you need to punish that woman because she actually cost you your job. It’s serious and she can get penalized. ]]> By: Silvafly http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-481 Silvafly Fri, 17 Oct 2008 21:00:15 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-481 Sup girl, nah you shouldnt let people get you down.. I was in a similar scenario i resigned from my work but at the end of the day it wasnt worth it.. What you should do is carry on with your life, remember those people dont put food on your table.. Go on strut ya stuff girl you gots your whole life ahead of ya,dont let rumours get ya down... SA Chick Sup girl, nah you shouldnt let people get you down.. I was in a similar scenario i resigned from my work but at the end of the day it wasnt worth it.. What you should do is carry on with your life, remember those people dont put food on your table.. Go on strut ya stuff girl you gots your whole life ahead of ya,dont let rumours get ya down…

SA Chick

]]> By: SoulDragon http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-480 SoulDragon Tue, 14 Oct 2008 16:45:38 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-480 First, do not make it worse by acting guilty. Second if it bother you so much you should grab the bull by the horns and address it directly and wholeheartedly. A mass e-mailto everyone on your department on your place of work would be a start previous talking to your manager of course. Explain how you feel, assure themis true, tell them your thoughts as you have here and ask for a second chance, I mean, even if you had donde whatever she said you did you still deserve it and address them honestly. I bet a lot of people wil be touched and many but not all will come forward and admire your courage and support you. That will also change your perception that everyone looks down on you know. I a not suggesting you are imagining the whole thing, there are people that gossip everywhere but at least half of those who do gossip are not aware ofthe harm they are doing and when becomig aware a few will back off, other willsimpathize and you will be able to restore your good name and social life. My impression is not only you are confussed as to whom your friends are but you could surely use some support here and taking a chance is the only way to get it. I know it sounds extreme, but so is moving, plus not to burst your bubble but you could always run into an ex co worker or something on your new place and you can't certainly consider moving every time that happened. Hope this helped :) First, do not make it worse by acting guilty. Second if it bother you so much you should grab the bull by the horns and address it directly and wholeheartedly. A mass e-mailto everyone on your department on your place of work would be a start previous talking to your manager of course. Explain how you feel, assure themis true, tell them your thoughts as you have here and ask for a second chance, I mean, even if you had donde whatever she said you did you still deserve it and address them honestly. I bet a lot of people wil be touched and many but not all will come forward and admire your courage and support you. That will also change your perception that everyone looks down on you know. I a not suggesting you are imagining the whole thing, there are people that gossip everywhere but at least half of those who do gossip are not aware ofthe harm they are doing and when becomig aware a few will back off, other willsimpathize and you will be able to restore your good name and social life. My impression is not only you are confussed as to whom your friends are but you could surely use some support here and taking a chance is the only way to get it. I know it sounds extreme, but so is moving, plus not to burst your bubble but you could always run into an ex co worker or something on your new place and you can’t certainly consider moving every time that happened. Hope this helped :) ]]> By: Helpful Honey http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-479 Helpful Honey Tue, 14 Oct 2008 14:24:26 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-479 Go to your local courthouse and get a harassment restraining order on this person and her friend---it may not totally shut them up but will make them look like they are liars. Then tell your new employer the whole situation, I know it may be embarrassing but you need to let them know what is going on---tell the employer the persons name and any other info you may have on her. Tell the employer you don't want this person showing up and not to accept calls from her---show them the restraining order. Also when you go to court, tell the official this lady has cost you your previous job----they will grant one to you. I was in a similar situation with my ex, my employer was very understanding and accommodating. Good luck!:) Go to your local courthouse and get a harassment restraining order on this person and her friend—it may not totally shut them up but will make them look like they are liars. Then tell your new employer the whole situation, I know it may be embarrassing but you need to let them know what is going on—tell the employer the persons name and any other info you may have on her. Tell the employer you don’t want this person showing up and not to accept calls from her—show them the restraining order. Also when you go to court, tell the official this lady has cost you your previous job—-they will grant one to you. I was in a similar situation with my ex, my employer was very understanding and accommodating. Good luck!:) ]]> By: pebblespro http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-478 pebblespro Tue, 14 Oct 2008 08:21:50 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-478 I would seriously think about filing a restraining order against this work "mate" and start doing damage control. I would speak with HR/Management and let them know what is going on and put it all on the table.. The rumors the lies etc.. If you dont defend yourself people will believe what she says is TRUE! I would also nip her little gossip friend in the bud and tell her to mind her own business! People don't like being called on the carpet... If you have a friend that works in law field (a lawyer) maybe he/she could draw up some paperwork to file a defemation suit or the like! Also, just be yourself and do your job the best that you can and soon others will realize that the other person was CRAZY and just JELOUS! Good luck I would seriously think about filing a restraining order against this work “mate” and start doing damage control. I would speak with HR/Management and let them know what is going on and put it all on the table.. The rumors the lies etc.. If you dont defend yourself people will believe what she says is TRUE! I would also nip her little gossip friend in the bud and tell her to mind her own business! People don’t like being called on the carpet… If you have a friend that works in law field (a lawyer) maybe he/she could draw up some paperwork to file a defemation suit or the like! Also, just be yourself and do your job the best that you can and soon others will realize that the other person was CRAZY and just JELOUS!

Good luck

]]> By: lylie http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-477 lylie Sun, 12 Oct 2008 13:25:05 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-477 Don't waste your time trying to get over it. You can't stop people from talking. You can choose to walk out of your home with your head facing down because you are guilty. Or.., you walk with your head up because you know you have nothing to hide. Choose one,please. Don’t waste your time trying to get over it. You can’t stop people from talking.

You can choose to walk out of your home with your head facing down because you are guilty.

Or.., you walk with your head up because you know you have nothing to hide. Choose one,please.

]]> By: m0v13574r http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-476 m0v13574r Thu, 09 Oct 2008 03:58:08 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-476 You can definitely take legal action for defamation. Also, you shouldnt have resigned from your job. Sticking to your guns would prove that these accusations, whatever they are, were false. However, running has kind of "proved" to them that they are correct .. if you understand what Im saying. You can definitely take legal action for defamation.

Also, you shouldnt have resigned from your job. Sticking to your guns would prove that these accusations, whatever they are, were false. However, running has kind of “proved” to them that they are correct .. if you understand what Im saying.

]]> By: originalkippyj http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/comment-page-1/#comment-475 originalkippyj Tue, 07 Oct 2008 01:08:52 +0000 http://www.brandbuildingblog.com/my-reputation-was-ruined-by-some-cruel-people-how-do-i-get-over-this/#comment-475 First, you may have grounds for a slander or defamation lawsuit against the neighbor. You will need witnesses for proof. See a lawyer who specializes in that type of suit. Should anything like this ever happen again, you need to remember that the one thing no one can ever take away from you is your character. It speaks for itself. You can give it away, or throw it away, but they can't take it. Next time, hold your head high, don't stoop to their level, and fight back! First, you may have grounds for a slander or defamation lawsuit against the neighbor. You will need witnesses for proof. See a lawyer who specializes in that type of suit.

Should anything like this ever happen again, you need to remember that the one thing no one can ever take away from you is your character. It speaks for itself. You can give it away, or throw it away, but they can’t take it. Next time, hold your head high, don’t stoop to their level, and fight back!

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